Resentment

Do you ever find yourself feeling resentful towards someone or something? For me, quite openly, I struggle recently with resentment towards my husband. Our marriage has struggled for the last few years and we each have made poor decisions that have led us to now, but ultimately; his resentment and rage towards me caused him to do something wild enough that I ended up terminated from my job.

When you build up something for yourself after so many years, it feels really hard to face losing it when the situation was as messy and complex as it was. This is not a scenario where I had performance issues and this was an easy out. This was taking a very strong performer and straight up ruining their career over personal issues. Is that something I can truly heal from and forgive?

Would any of you?