“To Do”….. Never?

Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.

Two very adult things, which is not surprising considering I’m moderately failing at the adulting thing.

1. Writing a Will. I am not sure why, I just haven’t brought myself to do it yet I’ve been saying for at least four years that I need to do it. Part of me opts to blame my husband (I’ll elaborate on that jab) but I could easily write a personal Will in the meantime and I’ve yet to do that either. Maybe my subconscious is concerned that I’ll write my Will and then kick the can immediately after. That is my kind of luck, after all.

2. Budgeting / saving. I used to be decent at this and in some ways, I could be worse off; however, holy fuck. I would like to ban myself from leaving the house because every time I do it’s a small fortune gone.

This is where I’ll elaborate on my jab from earlier. As much as I love him, my husband is the fucking worst when it comes to financials. He was never great but I swear he used to be better and at some point, the flip switched and I was blind to all of it. Since this realization, the more I try to discuss goal planning and budgeting, the greater the resistance and attitude I get. I’m over it. This is an area I can’t really handle on my own without growing major resentment issues. Take it from the lady who’s been patiently growing majorly fucking impatient.